Who Am I? I Am Writer.
Yes. That’s what I am. Chances are if you’re reading this you are a writer too, or think you are or you want to be.
Then again you may be a reader. And you rock something fierce.
But really, who am I?
My name is Tymothy Longoria and I am a writer, blogger(really a rambler) and supporter of all things Writer. I am in the final editing stages of my wip, my opus, The Stories:Book One-Genesis, an epic fantasy.
To any who grace Tiffany’s blog with your presence, I thank you and on her behalf I appreciate your love and support.
When I was given the chance to scribble up a guest post I was of course, honored just to be nomina-I mean I was honored just to be asked.
So I thought: Hmm…what to write?…hmmm…*twiddle thumbs, stare at the screen…got it! No, that won’t work…hmmm. Yes, no, no.
Okay. Now I’ve got it.
Let’s talk about a few of the pros and cons of writing. Or rather:
The Pros and Cons of Being a Writer
Cons.
1. Being a Writer is a lonely adventure.
You came to the realization that you are a writer. Maybe it was something you wrote or something you read, either way, when you came to it, you knew it. You believed it. I am a writer! you screamed from within. Maybe even shouted it out…but to whom? Your mother? Father? Friends? Chances are good you were alone when you realized this. Maybe you looked around, amped, excited, wanting to tell the world…but no one was there.
If you have yet to see this, trust me, you’ll get it. You will say: “Shite, he was right.”
2. No one understands you when you say Well, I’m a writer.
Being a writer is weird. I mean where else can you state your chosen profession or career choice and be met with a look that says: Whatchu talkin’ ‘bout?
You do what for a living? You’re trying to do what? You’re what?
All questions many of you have heard. All questions you more than likely have become frustrated over. The answers to those questions probably left you even more frustrated.
Trying to put in a single answer what we do, love to do-is a very difficult task. It shouldn’t be. I mean: “I’m a writer and I’m writing my first book called The Writer’s Journey.” Pretty simple answer, wouldn’t you agree?
But yet, this is the general response: “Yeah, I know…but what do you do?”
See, they just don’t get it. The more we try to explain, the more flustered we and the person asking the question become. This lack of understanding can be detrimental to our success. Because we can easily say, Sheesh no one even understands that this is what I believe in, so why bother?
3. Writing can be hard.
Matter of fact, it is. Here me out. Not everyone can pick up a pen-wait, look at me sounding all 1980’s-not everyone can open up a Word document and write the next best-seller or even a book that will make sense. Now don’t get me wrong. Again, I support anyone who has a dream of being a writer. A Writer. Never will I tell anyone, you can’t do that.
BUT-see that? That’s a big but-it takes work. A Writer needs time. Time to hone his/her writing. His/her skills. Agents, publishers, they want us to have a general grasp of grammar and yes, spelling. No, you don’t have to have won
Best Punctuation 1997 to write an amazing story. Then how about the story-line? It is interesting? Even Indies-love them-or self-pubbed greats have to have a story worth reading. Writing one sentence can be one of the hardest things a writer can do. Really. Ask around. Getting it right is what turns a mundane line into a great one that can add so much depth to your story. A letter Mark Twain wrote to editor George Bainton states: The difference between the almost right word & the right word is really a large matter--it's the difference between the lightning bug and the lightning.
Word. Being a writer is, for some, and this is also true, a difficult thing to admit for all the reasons above. However, deciding to become one can be the best choice you will ever make. If it is indeed what you want to do.
Pros.
1. Writing no longer has to be a lonely journey.
Been on the internet lately? You’re missing out if you said no to this question. Whether or not you declare out loud that you’re a writer people are supportive of you. Understatement. Of. The. Year.
I have met all my Writing Friends, my Supporters, My #BNFF’s, My #YASB peeps-online. This is a universe. Each of these groups are communities within this universe, and many of the people in one group are in the next. That’s the way it is. We embrace each other like family. We push and pull each other. We inspire each other to reach further into ourselves to find something we never knew we had. Strength. Determination. The will to do what we want to do. I never thought that when my wife told me “Yes, you are a writer” that I would be embraced so epically as I have been. It really is amazing when a brilliant writer raves about how “epic” you are. Or when this published author calls you the coolest thing ever! No, I’m not boasting about any of this. I’m saying that you receive so much love and respect from fellow writers. From readers who believe in your talents and your words. It really does something to your soul. At least for me it does. My Friends in all of these places, if you’re reading this, this means YOU. I am not lonely. Because I have all of you next to me.
2. When you know it. You know it. Now believe it.
I wrote a guest post for my #BNFF Christin Mowery, a talented and blessed Writer entitled: Am I A Writer?
http://www.christinmowery.com/guest-blog-post-am-i-a-writer-tymothy-longoria/ and let me tell you, I meant it. I know I’m a writer. It was one of the best moments in my life. Because after that, I knew nothing could stop me. No one could get in my way of accomplishing what I wanted. It would be me who allowed negativity to hinder my progress. It would be me who let a few unoriginal or distasteful remarks stop me from being who I knew I was. When you know you’re a writer, you know you’re a writer. My blog is called
Aspire No More for a reason. Stop telling yourself, I’m trying to be this or do that. Cut ties with the mentality that doesn’t allow you to truly believe in yourself and your gifts. Or your ability to make them grow. This is a pro because it’s akin to the moment the warrior finally realizes he had the strength and the power all along. He had only to believe. That is why it is such a timeless and oft used moment in the greatest stories of all time. The power of believing in who you are. For me my faith plays the biggest role-and my Friends are right there with me.
3. Writing can be hard. Not writing is harder.
When all is said and done or as I like to say, when all is written and done, what’s left? More writing. You know you’re a writer when you love to write. So there. If you don’t love it, then you probably shouldn’t be doing it. It’s like that with anything. So on this one the rules stays the same. How is this a pro, you may ask? You understand that no matter how much you’ve written, it will be never be enough. And THAT is something truly inspiring and compelling.
You can never really run out of things to write about. It’s not like any other job. It’s not a job at all. It never will be. It’s equal parts excitement, mystery, epicness, passion…I smile when I do it. My music plays loud and I sing along with the words as I write. As Allie Burke, blogger at
http://allieburke.blogspot.com/ says, I often say YES when I write, too.
So in writing this guest post for my Friend and future Author Tiffany Cole, I say YES.
There are of course so many more one could add to this list, but I hope you receive it and take something away from my words. Be inspired. Be moved. Be challenged.
Remember, when you call yourself a writer and put that coat on, you must be willing to wear it…always.
Be blessed.
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